We are heading into the last week before Christmas. It is a hectic time for many as Christmas shopping still has to get done or the presents have to be wrapped. Many of us are attending or hosting Christmas parties. The last week before Christmas can be a stressful time, but it doesn’t have to be. When my wife and I first got married we were constantly on the go. We were in a constant state of stress because we had to make sure presents were bought and wrapped, travel back and forth across the state, and looking for some time to ourselves. Over time that situation has straightened itself out, but there are still many out there going through what we went through during the holiday season.
Recently an injury has forced me to slow down a little bit, but I also have learned a few tricks or two over the past few years that have really helped me appreciate the week leading up to Christmas. Slowing things down a bit does not mean you have to stop working, stop enjoying Christmas parties or not enjoy time with family. It is quite the opposite from that. I have come to appreciate time with loved ones. Often this is something that gets taken for granted. Make every minute count when it comes to spending times with your loved ones. Presents and gifts are great when it comes to Christmas, but memories will last much longer. If you look back to previous years it is hard to remember what you got for Christmas, but often you will be able to recall a family Christmas outing, a special Christmas event spent with a spouse, and general fun times that were created as a result of spending time with loved ones. Try to get Christmas shopping done early. This year, my wife and I went out together on the same day. We hid our gifts in grocery bags so we could not see what was being bought for one anther. We then went out to dinner. It was another way we spent time together doing something that is usually a holiday hassle.
Family is important and spending time with loved ones is also important, but if you are constantly on the go and are not creating any time with your own spouse or family the stress of the holidays build up. When my wife and I got married we should have split our time with family to allow us to have time with each other. In some years, that was not the case and we found ourselves looking forward to the end of the holidays. During the last week before Christmas take a little time out for yourself. Spend a little time sitting alone in the living room with just the Christmas lights on listening to Christmas Music. Spend time doing something that you wanted to do, but never had the time doing. Slowing it down for the Christmas holiday does not mean to abandon life as you know it. Slowing down essentially balances life to reduce the stress that may come with this time of year, and give us a sense of peace that embodies what the holiday season is all about.