Baseball has come back to Detroit. Opening day for the Detroit Tigers is in a few days, and there is a level of excitement in spite of a lackluster spring training. I guess one could reason that a new season may bring new possibilities. In a few hours people will be heading into Comerica Park bumping shoulders with each other as they make their way to their seats. Some have said that they can close their eyes and imagine they hear the late Ernie Harwell call the game out back in the glory days. The smell of popcorn, hotdogs and hamburgers fill the air as people pass the concession stands. There is nothing like being a part of opening day. In many ways it is more about the experience than anything else.
I can remember long ago going to the old Tiger Stadium with my family when I was a kid. Back then I was never really interested in the game of baseball. I never forgot those games that we went to though. I was in fourth grade when I first went to a game with my family. Coincidentally, my first game came the year that the Tigers won the World Series in 1984. I remember the excitement of the crowd when Kirk Gibson hit a home run. I remember the excitement of watching Jack Morris strike out the opposing team and everyone cheering all around me. I remember everyone signing “Take Me Out To The Ballgame” on the 7th inning stretch. We did not have the greatest seats in the stadium, but we had fun that day. The experience of the game became more valuable than the game itself. The next time I went to a Tiger’s game was with my cousins and uncle several years later. The Tigers were not having the best game, but the elements of being at the game still remained. It was about the experience.
The Tigers are set to open up another season. This could be another average season, or there may be some surprises with efforts breaking all expectations based on what was noticed during the spring training games. One thing is for sure. No matter what happens to the Tigers this year, it will be magical on opening day. It will be magical for a kid experiencing his first ball game ever. The score of a game may be etched in on record for years to come, but often the memory of who won or lost is fleeting to the average person. The memory created by experiencing the game will be a lasting one.
The magic of a baseball game is not limited to just the Tigers. There are several great minor league teams in Michigan that offer the same excitement and the same experience. Grand Rapids, Lansing, Midland and Traverse City all have great minor league teams. It is a great way to spend quality time with the family. There are always plenty of entertaining breaks in between innings and some of these minor league teams are really good. Opening day is upon us. Come for the game, but leave with the great memories of the experience.
We are heading into the last week before Christmas. It is a hectic time for many as Christmas shopping still has to get done or the presents have to be wrapped. Many of us are attending or hosting Christmas parties. The last week before Christmas can be a stressful time, but it doesn’t have to be. When my wife and I first got married we were constantly on the go. We were in a constant state of stress because we had to make sure presents were bought and wrapped, travel back and forth across the state, and looking for some time to ourselves. Over time that situation has straightened itself out, but there are still many out there going through what we went through during the holiday season.
Recently an injury has forced me to slow down a little bit, but I also have learned a few tricks or two over the past few years that have really helped me appreciate the week leading up to Christmas. Slowing things down a bit does not mean you have to stop working, stop enjoying Christmas parties or not enjoy time with family. It is quite the opposite from that. I have come to appreciate time with loved ones. Often this is something that gets taken for granted. Make every minute count when it comes to spending times with your loved ones. Presents and gifts are great when it comes to Christmas, but memories will last much longer. If you look back to previous years it is hard to remember what you got for Christmas, but often you will be able to recall a family Christmas outing, a special Christmas event spent with a spouse, and general fun times that were created as a result of spending time with loved ones. Try to get Christmas shopping done early. This year, my wife and I went out together on the same day. We hid our gifts in grocery bags so we could not see what was being bought for one anther. We then went out to dinner. It was another way we spent time together doing something that is usually a holiday hassle.
Family is important and spending time with loved ones is also important, but if you are constantly on the go and are not creating any time with your own spouse or family the stress of the holidays build up. When my wife and I got married we should have split our time with family to allow us to have time with each other. In some years, that was not the case and we found ourselves looking forward to the end of the holidays. During the last week before Christmas take a little time out for yourself. Spend a little time sitting alone in the living room with just the Christmas lights on listening to Christmas Music. Spend time doing something that you wanted to do, but never had the time doing. Slowing it down for the Christmas holiday does not mean to abandon life as you know it. Slowing down essentially balances life to reduce the stress that may come with this time of year, and give us a sense of peace that embodies what the holiday season is all about.